It is not possible to control a node from another node, the second fxmap node can't ask the first one to change its random seed.
I guess you want to randomly draw different patterns in the second fxmap node, it might be possible to do that, but the different pattern versions will be static.
For instance you could have a square shape and a circle, and you want the fxmap to randomly draw square and circles.
It's not straight forward, I have to check.