Thanks for the reply, that was it, the version I had installed was 2018,
I had downloaded the update, but didn't realize it wasn't auto-updating and I had to manually install 2021.
So good news, UV autounwrap is now an import setting, (yay)
......but it didn't do a very good job, so it looks like I have more learning to do (more yay)
Thanks for the help!